Mental Health · by Felix Weber · 2026-08-26
What is worth spending money on for selfcare?
My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 9 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.
Context: I am not an expert, just someone trying to make Mental Health feel less intimidating. I wrote down what worked, what felt awkward, and what I would do differently next time
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Lucas Dubois · 22 likes
my practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. I would write it down before changing anything else
Sleepy Comet · 0 likes
Same here. It took me too long to learn
Tiny Sparrow · 18 likes
I disagree a bit. worth matters, but teh bigger issue is usually expectations. I would write it down before changing anything else
Kabir Khan · 3 likes
I am curious what changed your mind
Angel Reyes · 12 likes
the conclusion is too broad, but the example is interesting. This pairs weirdly well with jollof rice
Angel Reyes · 0 likes
that is fair, but I still worry about maintenance
Aoi Ito · 11 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. The 6-minute rule is underrated
Liam Eriksson · 7 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. The a coworking table detail changes the whole answer
Nour Ali · 7 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. For me it came down to the playlist
Chloe Davis · 5 likes
Yes, but I would approach it in a small, testable way rather than trying to solve everything at once. Most people skip the boring setup, but that setup is what makes the good habit survive a busy week.
- Start small and make the next step obvious.
- Keep notes so you can compare what worked.
- Ask someone with recent experience, not just strong opinions.
Hope this helps!
Ngozi Bello · 5 likes
My practical advice is to make the next step tiny enough that you can do it today. Momentum usually answers half the question. It sounds small, but the setup matters
Lukas Huber · 5 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. Honestly, the simplest version wins for me
Ethan Brooks · 4 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. This pairs weirdly well with lentil soup
Nour Ali · 3 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My only addition is to make the first step visible
Paper Otter · 3 likes
I am skeptical. The idea sounds good, but teh maintenance cost is real. This pairs weirdly well with sourdough
Valeria López · 3 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. It sounds small, but the conversation matters
Mara Fischer · 6 likes
That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines
Tiny Runner · 3 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. I keep a note about support for exactly this reason
Rapid Runner · 2 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I noticed the same thing in Istanbul
Rizky Pratama · 2 likes
The middle path is probly best: try it cheaply, keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing
Benjamín Rojas · 2 likes
I appreciate the honest middle stage, not just the polished ending. The rainy evening version is even more interesting
Cedar Atlas · 1 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the corner shop
Amina Okafor · 1 likes
Helpful and not preachy, which is rare. The gentle constraint is probably the real story
Minh Nguyen · 1 likes
I love this. It feels practical without pretending life is neat. For me it came down to the recipe
Nour Ali · 1 likes
The middle path is probably best: try it cheaply keep notes and decide after you have real evidence. I keep a note about selfcare for exactly this reason
Kabir Khan · 0 likes
I would ask what outcome you want in two weeks, not in some ideal future. That makes the choice much clearer. My friend tried it in Dublin and had the opposite result