Exodus · by Noé Petit · 2026-10-16
How to run your own Matrix server for family and friends (the short version)
Pick a small server implementation, get a domain, set up a reverse proxy with HTTPS, create accounts for people you trust, and turn off open registration. Tell everyone to use a client you've tested. Expect a few weeks of 'how do I verify my device' questions.
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Brave Rider · 2 likes
federated or closed? i'd keep it closed for a family server
Jonas Schneider · 0 likes
closed is simpler and safer. federation can be turned on later
Noé Petit · 0 likes
the lightweight implementations run fine on 1-2gb of ram
Jonas Schneider · 2 likes
element on mobile is okay these days, much better than a few years ago
Brave Rider · 2 likes
great short version. the 'turn off open registration' point matters