Ask Orbit · by Mehdi Benali · 2026-10-18
Boyfriend never plans dates - how do I bring it up kindly?
He's lovely, but I end up planning every outing and it's wearing me down. How do I raise this without sounding like I'm criticizing him?
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Rafael Almeida · 13 likes
Been thinking about being the only one who plans dates all morning lol.
Pixel Rider · 1 likes
could you share more details? genuinely curious
Cozy Noodle · 7 likes
Tried explaining to my dad what it's like being the only one who plans dates. Didn't go well lol.
Diego Quispe · 9 likes
could you share more details? genuinely curious
Ethan Brooks · 3 likes
I think cost matters more in planning dates than people acknowledge.
Emir Kaya · 7 likes
yeah same here, didn't think about it that way