How do you split chores without it becoming a scoreboard?

We both work full time and the dishes argument keeps coming back. Any systems that actually work long term without keeping score?

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the real question with splitting chores is who maintains it in two years

Haruto Sato · 13 likes

tbh I read it twice and still not sure what I think

Can you share more details? Would love to try it

saving this thread, splitting chores is exactly what I to read today

Priya Nair · 3 likes

my wallet just cried reading this

cost matters a lot here, splitting chores only makes sense if teh numbers actually work out at scale

Priya Nair · 14 likes

Disagree a bit, but I see where you're coming from

Skeptical but curious about splitting chores. Anyone got actual numbers or just vibes

my wallet just cried reading this

Everyone is ignoring the tradeoffs of splitting chores, performance vs complexity is a real thing

my wallet just cried reading this

This. Exactly this

Honestly splitting chores is more interesting than I expected, been reading about it all morning

fair point, I hadn't thought about it that way

As an enthusiast I'm just happy to see splitting chores getting attention, hope it keeps going

lol this is too accurate

I'd pay good money to see you debate that with my boss