Ask Orbit · by Nicolás Díaz · 2026-10-24

Boyfriend wants to move in after 6 months. Too soon?

We get along great, both mid 20s, his lease ends in January. Part of me is excited, part of me thinks it's mostly about the rent. How did you know it was the right time?

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Siti Lim · 12 likes

ask yourself if you'd still want to if rent was free. if yes, maybe. if no, there's your answer

Minh Nguyen · 8 likes

have the money and chores talk BEFORE the boxes are packed

Maya Williams · 1 likes

moved in at 5 months, married 8 years now. but my friend did the same and broke up in 3 months, so... coin flip

Kabir Khan · 12 likes

this is the most honest answer on here