Ask Orbit · by Tomás Gómez · 2026-10-29

Boyfriend wants to move in after 6 months. Too soon?

We're both late 20s, it's going really well, and rent is brutal. Part of me says yes, part of me says the rent is making the decision for us. How long did you wait?

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Chloe Davis · 7 likes

moved in at 5 months, married now. but I know people who did the same and it was a disaster. it's not about the months

Camille Dubois · 1 likes

if the main reason is rent, wait. if the main reason is you'd want to anyway and rent is a bonus, go

Cedar Comet · 0 likes

talk about chores and money BEFORE. that's where couples actually fight