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Wholesome · by Bianca Santos · 2026-09-05

What would you rather spend a free Saturday doing for absolute beginners

> Tiny progress is still progress.

That line sounds cheesy, but it got me through the part where wins stopped feeling new.

Would love to hear how other people handle this. I am especially curious about the version that works on a tired weekday, not just on an ideal Sunday.

I tried this in Mumbai with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan.

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 3 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.

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Milan Visser · 29 likes

I picked I need more context, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. The low-effort version is probably the keeper.

Rafael Almeida · 16 likes

@riderPilot65 That is fair, but I still worry about maintenance.

Bianca Santos · 2 likes

That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines.

Diego Quispe · 2 likes

Beautifully concise.

Siti Lestari · 1 likes

I had the same reaction to feels.

Curious Noodle · 28 likes

Fair point, but I had the opposite experience. I would love to see a follow-up after 9 weeks. The follow-through matters more than the perfect plan.

Elsa Andersson · 23 likes

I wish more posts had this much context. The 10-minute rule is underrated. Glad you shared the messy version too.

Urban Rider · 20 likes

Not for me got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. I would test it for 8 days before deciding.

Bianca Santos · 3 likes

Totally agree, especially for beginners.

Urban Rider · 8 likes

Short answer: yes. Long answer: also yes.

Bianca Santos · 3 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot.

Bianca Santos · 0 likes

I would pin this if I could.

Urban Rider · 2 likes

This is the kind of disagreement I like.

Tanvir Rahman · 0 likes

That is a much better way to say it.

Amina Okafor · 13 likes

Beautifully put. I needed that reminder today. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability.

Maya Williams · 1 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy.

Nour Ali · 12 likes

Maybe, but the tradeoff seems bigger than the post suggests. The first week version is even more interesting. Glad you shared the messy version too.

Tiny Sparrow · 11 likes

I picked Only with help, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. I used to overcomplicate this constantly.

Theo Bennett · 9 likes

Useful intention, poor execution. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer.

Jisoo Park · 9 likes

What would you change if you started over? A little friction removed goes a long way.

Aoi Ito · 7 likes

I like this more than the top-level advice.

Sophie Gagnon · 2 likes

The best answer in the thread, honestly.

Élodie Favre · 0 likes

@jisoo-71 Respectfully, I see it the other way.

Mia Anderson · 8 likes

Surprised more people aren't choosing Only with help. It seems like the practical answer. I learned that one the expensive way.

Noura Alotaibi · 6 likes

I appreciate the honest middle stage, not just the polished ending. This would have saved me a lot of trial and error.

Lucas Dubois · 6 likes

Surprised more people aren't choosing Not for me. It seems like the practical answer. The commute version is even more interesting.

Paolo Garcia · 5 likes

I picked Not for me, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. The practical part is easy to underestimate.

Amina Okafor · 4 likes

This sounds sensible, though I would need to test it myself. I would test it for 6 days before deciding. The follow-through matters more than the perfect plan.

Aarav Sharma · 3 likes

Not for me got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. That is the kind of detail beginners miss.

Lotte Jansen · 0 likes

@dev_aarav84 The best answer in the thread, honestly.

Marco Conti · 3 likes

I would push back gently on the beginners part. The ambitious constraint is probably the real story.

Priya Nair · 3 likes

Surprised more people aren't choosing Not for me. It seems like the practical answer. I used to overcomplicate this constantly.

Cedar Otter · 3 likes

I picked I need more context, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. The 8-minute rule is underrated.

Isha Menon · 2 likes

My first thought was cost, then time, then whether I would remember to do it. This is more useful on a tired busy month than on a perfect day. Glad you shared the messy version too.

Rohan Mehta · 2 likes

Surprised more people aren't choosing I need more context. It seems like the practical answer. My only addition is to make the first step visible.

Maya Williams · 2 likes

Only with help got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. The my desk detail changes the whole answer.

Avery Johnson · 2 likes

I am cheering for this update. The social part surprised me too.

Marco Conti · 2 likes

I picked Not for me, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. I would test it for 5 days before deciding.

Noah Johansson · 2 likes

Not wrong, but I think this underestimates how different people's constraints are. That is the kind of detail beginners miss. Glad you shared the messy version too.

Nour Ali · 2 likes

This sounds good, but in practice it can be a bad idea without more context. The cozy part is easy to underestimate.

Theo Bennett · 2 likes

Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 6 months. I would love to see a follow-up after 8 weeks.

Ananya Rao · 1 likes

This depends heavily on budget, time and personality. The practical part is easy to underestimate.

Noé Petit · 1 likes

Only with help got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. I am curious whether kindness still feels good next month.

Curious Noodle · 1 likes

I like the idea, but the setup probably matters a lot. The useful part is easy to underestimate.

Mehdi Benali · 1 likes

Honestly, great taste. The busy month version is even more interesting.

Yui Tanaka · 1 likes

I need more context got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing.

Noah Miller · 0 likes

Surprised more people aren't choosing Not for me. It seems like the practical answer. This pairs weirdly well with dumplings.

Ananya Rao · 0 likes

I picked I need more context, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. The 10-minute rule is underrated.