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Funny · by Iryna Melnyk · 2026-09-10

A gentle rant about jokes and expectations that actually stuck

> Tiny progress is still progress.

That line sounds cheesy, but it got me thru teh part where silly stopped feeling new.

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 2 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it

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Paolo Garcia · 51 likes

there is probably a middle ground here. A little friction removed goes a long way

Camila Rocha · 46 likes

The conclusion is too broad, but the example is interesting. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the library

Iryna Melnyk · 99 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Isha Menon · 27 likes

That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines

Aoi Ito · 5 likes

You just saved me a bad purchase

Miguel Santos · 2 likes

Thanks that actually helped

Omar Hassan · 38 likes

This is teh kind of useful internet I still show up for. The Mumbai example makes it feel concrete

Daan Bakker · 34 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. My only addition is to make the first step visible

Mateo Cruz · 34 likes

Do you think this would work in a smaller place than Cairo? I noticed the same thing in Mumbai

Amina Okafor · 27 likes

I think this advice is overrated. I noticed the same thing in Lisbon

Rapid Noodle · 27 likes

honestly this is a little too vague to be useful. The messy constraint is probly the real story

Kabir Khan · 27 likes

I love this. It feels practical without pretending life is neat. A little friction removed goes a long way. Small progress still counts

Tola Ibrahim · 4 likes

fair pushback

Maya Williams · 26 likes

I am cheering for this update. I keep a note about silly for exactly this reason

Camille Dubois · 21 likes

I love this. It feels practical without pretending life is neat. It sounds small, but the route matters

Cozy Runner · 19 likes

Glad you shared it; small wins count. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the train station

Rohan Mehta · 8 likes

That is the part people skip

Bianca Santos · 18 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out. I noticed the same thing in Cape Town

Paper Orbit · 16 likes

Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 7 months. This pairs weirdly well with sourdough

Ananya Rao · 15 likes

I get the appeal, though I would be careful calling it the best option. I would love to see a follow-up after 7 weeks

Chloe Davis · 12 likes

I would not call it wrong, just incomplete. My only addition is to make the first step visible

Iryna Melnyk · 16 likes

I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me

Ngozi Bello · 12 likes

This made me smile more than expected

Urban Otter · 12 likes

Agree completely. The simple version is underrated

Pixel Fern · 11 likes

Anecdotally, this tracks with what I have seen. This is more useful on a tired rainy evening than on a perfect day

Amina Okafor · 4 likes

Appreciate the nuance

Jasmine Cruz · 10 likes

Did anyone else read this and immediately make a tiny checklist? This pairs weirdly well with falafel

Paper Orbit · 8 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out. The practical constraint is probably the real story

Ethan Brooks · 3 likes

The Tuesday test is undefeated

Paper Orbit · 1 likes

yep, the boring details matter

Camille Dubois · 8 likes

I disagree a bit. jokes matters, but the bigger issue is usually expectations. This pairs weirdly well with falafel

Irene López · 8 likes

the kindness in this post is lovely. This is more useful on a tired busy month than on a perfect day

Paolo Garcia · 8 likes

I am saving this for teh next time I overthink expectations. I care less about teh perfect answer and more about repeatability

Mariam Said · 8 likes

That is a surprisingly elegant way to frame it. The ambitious constraint is probably the real story

Iryna Melnyk · 2 likes

I am stealing that phrase

Jiho Lee · 7 likes

Wonderful detail. It makes the whole thing feel real. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing

Avery Johnson · 7 likes

My version of this was messier, but the conclusion was similar. The 8-minute rule is underrated

Irene López · 6 likes

I laughed, but you are not wrong

Tola Ibrahim · 4 likes

that is fair, but I still worry about maintenance

Oliver Smith · 1 likes

anecdote beats theory here

Lina Al Harbi · 1 likes

could be regional too

Piotr Zieliński · 7 likes

that last line is excellent

Ethan Brooks · 7 likes

I think the bad version of this advice causes alot of frustration

Amelia Hughes · 6 likes

I love this. It feels practical without pretending life is neat. The Nairobi example makes it feel concrete

Sofía Hernández · 57 likes

This is the gentle version of my rant

Iryna Melnyk · 8 likes

that is fair, but I still worry about maintenance

Priya Nair · 4 likes

I think both things can be true

Zeynep Demir · 2 likes

Totally agree, especially for beginners

Hugo Martin · 0 likes

The Tuesday test is undefeated

Nusrat Akter · 6 likes

this reminds me of something a friend in São Paulo mentioned. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability

Midnight Otter · 6 likes

This reminds me of something a friend in Lagos mentioned. This pairs weirdly well with ramen. I needed this reminder today

Grace Parker · 55 likes

short answer: yes. Long answer: also yes

Amelia Hughes · 6 likes

Do you think this would work in a smaller place than Mumbai? I learned that one the expensive way

Sanne de Vries · 5 likes

This feels a little overrated to me, even if the intention is good. This pairs weirdly well with falafel

Paper Orbit · 5 likes

I love this. It feels practical without pretending life is neat. The quiet part is easy to underestimate

Mateo Cruz · 4 likes

Big fan of this approach. The messy part is easy to underestimate

Ethan Brooks · 4 likes

excellent timing; I was just thinking about rant. The beautiful part is easy to underestimate

Noah Miller · 3 likes

I am mostly here for the follow-up. I would write it down before changing anything else

Minji Kim · 19 likes

fair pushback

Sanne de Vries · 7 likes

@pandaRunner I think both things can be true

Hugo Martin · 3 likes

agree completely. The simple version is underrated. That is where the boring checklist helps

Grace Parker · 3 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near my desk. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages

Marco Conti · 3 likes

Anecdotally, this tracks with what I have seen. This pairs weirdly well with shakshuka

Minh Nguyen · 3 likes

You explained the tradeoff really clearly. The social part surprised me too

Iryna Melnyk · 3 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out

Léa Bernard · 3 likes

I wish more posts had this much context. I am curious whether silly still feels good next month. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages

Pixel Orbit · 3 likes

not wrong, but I think this underestimates how different people's constraints are. The Nairobi example makes it feel concrete

Aisha Rahman · 2 likes

What happened after the first week? I am curious whether actualy stayed easy. I keep a note about stories for exactly this reason

Minh Nguyen · 137 likes

@otterRunner42 Respectfully, I see it the other way

Nour Ali · 21 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy

Aisha Rahman · 15 likes

fair pushback

João Pereira · 4 likes

could be regional too

Maya Putri · 2 likes

Totally agree, especially for beginners

Iryna Melnyk · 2 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy

Liam Eriksson · 0 likes

You just saved me a bad purchase

Silver Otter · 2 likes

That is a surprisingly elegant way to frame it. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability

Paolo Garcia · 4 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy

Siti Lestari · 2 likes

This is adorable and oddly motivating. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability

Mehdi Benali · 2 likes

interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 4 months. I would test it for 3 days before deciding

Hugo Martin · 2 likes

My first thought was cost, then time, then whether I would remember to do it. It sounds small, but the playlist matters

Cedar Runner · 1 likes

I am mostly here for the follow-up

Gentle Noodle · 21 likes

I would love a follow-up example

Iryna Melnyk · 10 likes

@atlasRunner3 Totally agree, especially for beginners

Paper Runner · 1 likes

Really good advice, and it feels doable

Mina Chowdhury · 1 likes

this has cozy competence written all over it. I keep a note about silly for exactly this reason

Sebastián Rojas · 1 likes

You explained the tradeoff really clearly. The the train station detail changes the whole answer

Aisha Jacobs · 1 likes

Can you share what you tried before this? This is where I would ask one more question before choosing

Grace Parker · 1 likes

Maybe, but the tradeoff seems bigger than the post suggests. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing. I needed this reminder today

Maja Wiśniewska · 1 likes

great point, especially the part about expectations. The Madrid example makes it feel concrete. I needed this reminder today

Urban Fern · 1 likes

Honestly, great taste. The Lisbon example makes it feel concrete

Haruto Sato · 0 likes

I would not call it wrong, just incomplete. My friend tried it in Jakarta and had teh opposite result

Aarav Sharma · 0 likes

honestly, great taste. My only addition is to make the first step visible. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages

Jiho Lee · 15 likes

good clarification — I read it differently at first

Benjamín Rojas · 28 likes

@kr_atlas I would pin this if I could