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Parenting · by Ananya Rao · 2026-08-28

A gentle rant about advice and expectations in Manila

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 5 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.

Part of me wanted the fancy version with all the tools. The better version was boring: one notebook, one reminder, and a willingness to be clumsy with the recipe for a while.

I know this is a tiny sample size, but after 9 attempts the pattern is pretty clear. When I keep the setup simple, I actually follow through.

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Imogen Clarke · 2 likes

This is useful for some cases, but terrible advice if the stakes are high. It sounds small, but the setup matters. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer.