Wholesome · by Lucas Dubois · 2026-09-17
Can we talk about the underrated side of kindness that actually stuck
A few notes from my attempt:
- keep the first step visible
- remove one annoying decision
- celebrate the boring repeat
This is probably obvious to veterans here, but it clicked for me only recently. family got easier when I stopped treating every attempt like a final exam.
> Tiny progress is still progress.
That line sounds cheesy, but it got me through the part where wins stopped feeling new.
My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 4 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.
- keep the first step visible
- remove one annoying decision
- celebrate the boring repeat
This is probably obvious to veterans here, but it clicked for me only recently. family got easier when I stopped treating every attempt like a final exam.
> Tiny progress is still progress.
That line sounds cheesy, but it got me through the part where wins stopped feeling new.
My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 4 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.
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