Coffee · by Mariana Costa · 2026-09-17

A tiny story about bibimbap, Dublin and timing

I had a disappointing first try, a surprisingly good second try, and then a third attempt that taught me humility. So, naturally, I now have opinions.

My current rule is simple: if it takes less then 10 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.

Context: I am not an expert, just someone trying to make Coffee feel less intimidating. I wrote down what worked, what felt awkward, and what I would do differently next time.

I tried this in Cairo with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan

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Theo Bennett · 41 likes

Did anyone else read this and immediately make a tiny checklist? This would have saved me a lot of trial and error. I would absolutely hover near the kitchen for this

Solar River · 23 likes

I needed the reminder to start smaller

Rizky Pratama · 11 likes

Kind of wild how often else is the whole issue

Rapid River · 7 likes

Amazing how much difference one small change can make. I would write it down before changing anything else

Cedar Mango · 6 likes

This depends heavily on budget, time and personality. The social part surprised me too

Camille Dubois · 1 likes

I am stealing that phrase

Emir Kaya · 5 likes

I would not call it wrong just incomplete. I would test it for 6 days before deciding

Mango Orbit · 1 likes

I think both things can be true

Maya Putri · 1 likes

You just saved me a bad purchase

João Pereira · 1 likes

noted, and thank you

João Pereira · 3 likes

This is the kind of useful internet I still show up for

Ngozi Bello · 3 likes

Amazing how much difference one small change can make. It sounds small, but the first draft matters

Quiet Fern · 2 likes

the boring logistics are always the hidden part. This is more useful on a tired rainy evening than on a perfect day

Sofía Hernández · 2 likes

This is adorable and oddly motivating. I would test it for 6 days before deciding

Aoi Ito · 2 likes

Exactly; the hidden cost is energy

Diego García · 1 likes

agree completely. The simple version is underrated. Honestly, the simplest version wins for me

Amelia Hughes · 1 likes

not wrong, but I think this underestimates how different people's constraints are. It sounds small, but the tiny repair matters

Maya Williams · 1 likes

this feels like advice from a patient friend. I would test it for 8 days before deciding