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Ask Orbit · by Valeria López · 2026-08-28

Can we talk about the underrated side of people

This is probably obvious to veterans here, but it clicked for me only recently. people got easier when I stopped treating every attempt like a final exam.

I tried this in São Paulo with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan.

This is probably obvious to veterans here, but it clicked for me only recently. advice got easier when I stopped treating every attempt like a final exam.

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Chloe Davis · 2 likes

Excellent timing; I was just thinking about people. I am curious whether advice still feels good next month.

Gentle Comet · 1 likes

Really good advice, and it feels doable. I used to overcomplicate this constantly.

Chloe Davis · 0 likes

I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. I would write it down before changing anything else.