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Paolo Garcia · 64 likes
That last line is excellent. I noticed the same thing in Warsaw
Pieter Botha · 49 likes
beautifully put. I needed that reminder today. The beautiful constraint is probably the real story
Finn Brown · 48 likes
big fan of this approach. My friend tried it in Cape Town and had the opposite result
Piotr Zieliński · 38 likes
Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 3 months. I would write it down before changing anything else
Finn Brown · 33 likes
Honestly, great taste. I noticed the same thing in Madrid
Jiho Lee · 18 likes
@urban_youssef I laughed, but you are not wrong
Aarav Sharma · 17 likes
I found this disappointing becuase it skips the hardest part. My friend tried it in Kuala Lumpur and had the opposite result
Maya Williams · 14 likes
Love the tiny experiment energy. This is more useful on a tired busy month than on a perfect day
Chinedu Adeyemi · 12 likes
interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 7 months. I would test it for 8 days before deciding
Miguel Santos · 12 likes
Great point, especially the part about before. I learned that one the expensive way
Curious Noodle · 11 likes
really good advice, and it feels doable. My only addition is to make the first step visible
Amina Okafor · 10 likes
great point, especially teh part about people. I noticed teh same thing in Lagos
Rohan Mehta · 5 likes
that is fair, but I still worry about maintenance
Urban Fern · 2 likes
I like this more then the top-level advice
Amina Okafor · 1 likes
@miguelrides Yep, the boring details matter
Camille Dubois · 10 likes
Honestly, great taste. This pairs weirdly well with pierogi. Glad you shared teh messy version too
Yui Tanaka · 9 likes
Do you think this would work in a smaller place than Dublin? The low-effort version is probably the keeper
Jiho Lee · 10 likes
I would pin this if I could
Luca Bianchi · 8 likes
@jp_comet50 I think both things can be true
Rapid River · 4 likes
This comment has main-character footnote energy
Noé Petit · 3 likes
That made the concept click
Luca Bianchi · 0 likes
Thanks for making it less intimidating
Chloe Davis · 9 likes
This is adorable and oddly motivating. For me it came down to the practice run. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages
Isha Menon · 9 likes
Can you share what you tried before this? The Melbourne example makes it feel concrete
Paolo Garcia · 7 likes
Great point, especially the part about finally. Honestly, the simplest version wins for me. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer
Grace Parker · 7 likes
Agree completely. The simple version is underrated. The cozy constraint is probably the real story
Kabir Khan · 7 likes
the kindness in this post is lovely. That is the kind of detail beginners miss
Chloe Davis · 6 likes
Excellent timing; I was just thinking about jokes. A little friction removed goes a long way
Léa Bernard · 6 likes
This made me smile more than expected. I learned that one the expensive way
Avery Johnson · 6 likes
This is the kind of useful internet I still show up for. The social part surprised me too
Grace Parker · 5 likes
I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. The quiet constraint is probably the real story
Cedar Otter · 24 likes
This is the gentle version of my rant
Luca Bianchi · 1 likes
I like this more then the top-level advice
Grace Parker · 1 likes
That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines
Tiny Fern · 4 likes
I am saving this for the next time I overthink before. It sounds small, but the playlist matters
Emir Kaya · 4 likes
Anecdotally, this tracks with what I have seen. I would love to see a follow-up after 7 weeks
Hugo Sánchez · 3 likes
This is useful for some cases, but terrible advice if the stakes are high. My only addition is to make the first step visible. Small progress still counts
Lucas Silva · 6 likes
I had the same reaction to visible
Solar Mango · 3 likes
amazing how much difference one small change can make. My friend tried it in Berlin and had the opposite result
Yui Tanaka · 3 likes
Great point, especially the part about finally
Pieter Botha · 3 likes
Not wrong but I think this underestimates how different people's constraints are
Yui Tanaka · 2 likes
This has cozy competence written all over it. I am curious whether stories still feels good next month
Nicolás Díaz · 61 likes
This is the gentle version of my rant
Aarav Sharma · 2 likes
Can you share what you tried before this? The beautiful part is easy to underestimate
Jasmine Cruz · 2 likes
This has cozy competence written all over it. My friend tried it in Manila and had the opposite result
Maya Williams · 1 likes
I wonder how much of this depends on timing. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing
Aarav Sharma · 28 likes
This comment has main-character footnote energy
Haruto Sato · 2 likes
@urban_maya Can you expand on that a bit?
Chloe Davis · 3 likes
I had the same reaction to question
Maya Williams · 0 likes
@quiet_chloe98 That made the concept click
Luca Bianchi · 2 likes
Kind of wild how often timing is the whole issue
Hugo Martin · 1 likes
Big fan of this approach. That is where the boring checklist helps
Cedar Runner · 1 likes
I wish more posts had this much context
Tiny Rider · 1 likes
This feels like advice from a patient friend. My only addition is to make the first step visible
Amina Okafor · 1 likes
Big fan of this approach. I would test it for 3 days before deciding. I needed this reminder today
Isha Menon · 1 likes
That is a good question for people with more experience then me. The the kitchen detail changes the whole answer
Maya Putri · 1 likes
There is a hidden assumption here that not everyone shares. I would love to see a follow-up after 10 weeks
Kabir Khan · 1 likes
The context helps. Without it I would have assumed the opposite. The lunch break version is even more interesting
Noah Miller · 1 likes
There is probably a middle ground here. My only addition is to make teh first step visible
Kabir Khan · 1 likes
this is useful for some cases, but terrible advice if the stakes are high. I would love to see a follow-up after 9 weeks
Gentle Atlas · 1 likes
This feels a little overrated to me, even if the intention is good. This is more useful on a tired lunch break than on a perfect day
Cozy Mango · 1 likes
excellent timing; I was just thinking about coffee. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near teh library
Iryna Melnyk · 0 likes
I get the appeal, though I would be careful calling it the best option. I would test it for 7 days before deciding
Theo Bennett · 0 likes
this feels like advice from a patient friend. I keep a note about stories for exactly this reason
Brave Orbit · 0 likes
The kindness in this post is lovely. I noticed the same thing in São Paulo. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages
Noah Miller · 0 likes
There is probably a middle ground here. The Jakarta example makes it feel concrete