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Fitness · by Brian Otieno · 2026-09-26

What I wish I knew before trying habits for absolute beginners

I had a disappointing first try, a surprisingly good second try, and then a third attempt that taught me humility. So, naturally, I now have opinions.

I know this is a tiny sample size, but after 7 attempts the pattern is pretty clear. When I keep the setup simple, I actually follow through.

I started this because my commute felt a little stuck, and habits seemed like a manageable place to experiment. The funny part is that the smallest change was the one I kept.

Context: I am not an expert, just someone trying to make Fitness feel less intimidating. I wrote down what worked, what felt awkward, and what I would do differently next time.

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Kabir Khan · 14 likes

This sounds sensible, though I would need to test it myself. I would love to see a follow-up after 5 weeks.

Cedar Coder · 10 likes

That is a surprisingly elegant way to frame it. The social part surprised me too.

Huy Le · 5 likes

I agree with the goal and disagree with the method. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the library.

Curious Mango · 5 likes

Amazing how much difference one small change can make. I would love to see a follow-up after 5 weeks. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer.

Siti Lestari · 4 likes

Can you share what you tried before this? For me it came down to the routine. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages.

Brian Otieno · 4 likes

I laughed, but you are not wrong.

Brave Lantern · 1 likes

Helpful correction.

Brian Otieno · 17 likes

I am curious what changed your mind.

Mara Fischer · 1 likes

Appreciate the nuance.

Mango Rider · 3 likes

I like this more than the top-level advice.

Aarav Sharma · 2 likes

Short answer: yes. Long answer: also yes.

Oliver Smith · 1 likes

This comment has main-character footnote energy.

Tomás Gómez · 2 likes

This reminds me of something a friend in Lagos mentioned. My only addition is to make the first step visible.

Mariana Costa · 2 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. I would write it down before changing anything else.

Youssef Mahmoud · 0 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer.

Huy Le · 0 likes

The vibe here is immaculate. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a coworking table.