Unpopular Opinions · by Tola Ibrahim · 2026-09-26
I tried doing debate the boring way and it worked after 30 tries
111 sparks · 17 comments
Unpopular Opinions · by Tola Ibrahim · 2026-09-26
111 sparks · 17 comments
Siti Lestari · 60 likes
I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. I keep a note about debate for exactly this reason
Liam Naidoo · 2 likes
Now I want a spreadsheet
Tola Ibrahim · 1 likes
could be regional too
Tiny Atlas · 21 likes
I like the idea, but the setup probably matters a lot. It sounds small, but the playlist matters
Salma Idrissi · 12 likes
That sounds great until you add children/pets/deadlines
Cedar Baker · 11 likes
That last line is excellent. This is more useful on a tired Monday morning than on a perfect day
Liam Wilson · 10 likes
interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 10 months. My friend tried it in Warsaw and had the opposite result
Theo Bennett · 6 likes
really good advice, and it feels doable. I would write it down before changing anything else
Ngozi Bello · 8 likes
Respectfully, I see it the other way
Theo Bennett · 2 likes
could be regional too
Tola Ibrahim · 1 likes
The best answer in the thread, honestly
Tola Ibrahim · 1 likes
I am stealing that phrase
Curious Mango · 5 likes
That is the part people skip
Urban Panda · 3 likes
The vibe here is immaculate. I noticed the same thing in Dublin
Mara Fischer · 1 likes
There is probably a middle ground here. I would test it for 2 days before deciding
Theo Bennett · 0 likes
This made me smile more than expected
Maya Williams · 0 likes
That is a good question for people with more experience than me. The a family dinner detail changes the whole answer