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Rohan Mehta · 91 likes
The conclusion is too broad, but the example is interesting. The social part surprised me too
Mateo Cruz · 1 likes
I would love a follow-up example
Quiet River · 17 likes
The framing feels off to me. Not terrible, just not convincing. I am curious whether silly still feels good next month
Aoi Ito · 16 likes
I picked Yes definitely, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. I learned that one the expensive way
Aarav Sharma · 12 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Maybe later. It seems like the practical answer. My only addition is to make the first step visible
Omar Hassan · 4 likes
Exactly; the hidden cost is energy
Grace Parker · 11 likes
maybe later got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. I learned that one the expensive way
Iryna Melnyk · 9 likes
surprised more people aren't choosing Yes, definitely. It seems like the practical answer. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a tiny balcony
Isha Menon · 8 likes
Maybe later got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. The 6-minute rule is underrated
Midnight Otter · 8 likes
This feels like advice from a patient friend. The useful constraint is probably the real story
Sara Ahmed · 8 likes
I picked Yes, definitely, mostly becuase it feels easiest to live with. My friend tried it in Mexico City and had the opposite result
Luca Bianchi · 6 likes
What happened after the first week? I am curious whether like stayed easy. This would have saved me a lot of trial and error
Maya Putri · 16 likes
Totally agree, especially for beginners
Paolo Garcia · 6 likes
I like this more then the top-level advice
Minh Nguyen · 0 likes
This is the kind of disagreement I like
Grace Parker · 6 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Maybe later. It seems like the practical answer. The 8-minute rule is underrated
Paper River · 17 likes
short answer: yes. Long answer: also yes
Curious River · 6 likes
I picked Yes, definitely, mostly becuase it feels easiest to live with. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing
Piotr Zieliński · 6 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Maybe later. It seems like the practical answer. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a trailhead
Rachel Tan · 6 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Yes definitely. It seems like the practical answer. I would write it down before changing anything else
Amina Okafor · 6 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Maybe later. It seems like the practical answer. I learned that one the expensive way
Chinedu Adeyemi · 5 likes
Yes, definitely got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. I would love to see a follow-up after 3 weeks
Minji Kim · 5 likes
Maybe later got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. I keep a note about jokes for exactly this reason
Sleepy Panda · 4 likes
surprised more people aren't choosing Maybe later. It seems like the practical answer. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a family dinner
Kabir Khan · 4 likes
That last line is excellent. A little friction removed goes a long way
Sofía Hernández · 4 likes
I picked Yes, definitely, mostly becuase it feels easiest to live with. The first week version is even more interesting
Alma Nilsson · 3 likes
I had a similar experience, but my problem was consistency rather than motivation. I would love to see a follow-up after 10 weeks
Ethan Brooks · 14 likes
@alma-57 I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me
Paolo Garcia · 3 likes
Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot
Priya Nair · 1 likes
This is the kind of disagreement I like
Alma Nilsson · 1 likes
I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me
Chinedu Adeyemi · 3 likes
Yes, definitely got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. Honestly, the simplest version wins for me
Kabir Khan · 3 likes
Surprised more people aren't choosing Yes, definitely. It seems like the practical answer. My friend tried it in Lagos and had the opposite result
Lucas Dubois · 3 likes
Interesting. I would like to see how it changes after 10 months. This is kinder advice than most of the internet manages
Marco Conti · 2 likes
do you think this would work in a smaller place then Madrid? I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability
Kabir Khan · 2 likes
I picked Maybe later, mostly becuase it feels easiest to live with. I would love to see a follow-up after 3 weeks
Rohan Mehta · 2 likes
I like this more then the top-level advice
Paolo Garcia · 1 likes
The best answer in the thread, honestly
Pixel Rider · 0 likes
Respectfully, I see it the other way
Paper River · 2 likes
I was going to disagree, but your second sentence got me
Mara Fischer · 2 likes
Yes, definitely got my vote. The other choices are good, but this one fits my week. The messy part is easy to underestimate
Haruto Sato · 2 likes
surprised more people aren't choosing Yes, definitely. It seems like the practical answer. I am curious whether jokes still feels good next month
Thandi Mokoena · 2 likes
I do not have a strong take, but the like detail is useful. A little friction removed goes a long way
Camila Rocha · 2 likes
this is the kind of useful internet I still show up for. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near a family dinner
Hugo Martin · 1 likes
There is probably a middle ground here
Kanya Srisai · 1 likes
I picked Yes, definitely, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. I used to overcomplicate this constantly
Lina Al Harbi · 1 likes
I picked Maybe later, mostly because it feels easiest to live with. This pairs weirdly well with lentil soup
Camille Dubois · 1 likes
I picked Yes, definitely, mostly becuase it feels easiest to live with. This is where I would ask one more question before choosing
Lukas Huber · 0 likes
This has cozy competence written all over it. I would love to see a follow-up after 7 weeks