What is your default move when culture gets messy for absolute beginners

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 7 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.

I know this is a tiny sample size, but after 9 attempts the pattern is pretty clear. When I keep the setup simple, I actually follow through.

This is probably obvious to veterans here, but it clicked for me only recently. opinions got easier when I stopped treating every attempt like a final exam.

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 4 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.