Basketball · by Sara Ahmed · 2026-09-29
The most messy part of learning pickup in Kuala Lumpur
My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 8 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.
I started this because my weekend felt a little stuck, and training seemed like a manageable place to experiment. The funny part is that the smallest change was the one I kept.
I tried this in Warsaw with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan.
I started this because my weekend felt a little stuck, and training seemed like a manageable place to experiment. The funny part is that the smallest change was the one I kept.
I tried this in Warsaw with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan.
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