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Wholesome · by Jiho Lee · 2026-09-30

I changed one thing and suddenly family made sense with a delightful constraint

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 9 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it

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Priya Nair · 9 likes

This sounds sensible, though I would need to test it myself

[deleted] · 6 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Noé Petit · 3 likes

Same here. It took me too long to learn

Urban Orbit · 4 likes

My version of this was messier, but the conclusion was similar. It sounds small, but the practice run matters

Camila Rocha · 4 likes

I would not call it wrong, just incomplete. I keep a note about family for exactly this reason

Aarav Sharma · 2 likes

The kindness in this post is lovely. This is more useful on a tired busy month than on a perfect day. People underestimate how much sleep changes the answer

Ethan Brooks · 11 likes

Thanks that actually helped

Tola Ibrahim · 2 likes

maybe, but the tradeoff seems bigger then the post suggests

Tiny Fern · 1 likes

Mildly negative take: teh simple version is sometimes just underexplained. I noticed teh same thing in Buenos Aires

Iryna Melnyk · 1 likes

I had the same reaction to take

Tomás Gómez · 0 likes

I am saving this for the next time I overthink sense. The weekend version is even more interesting