Unpopular Opinions · by Ngozi Bello · 2026-10-04

A tiny win from Kuala Lumpur that made my week

My current rule is simple: if it takes less than 2 minutes to prepare, I am much more likely to keep doing it.

I started this because my commute felt a little stuck, and food seemed like a manageable place to experiment. The funny part is that the smallest change was the one I kept.

Part of me wanted the fancy version with all the tools. The better version was boring: one notebook, one reminder, and a willingness to be clumsy with the route for a while.

A few notes from my attempt:
- keep the first step visible
- remove one annoying decision
- celebrate the boring repeat

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Comments

Youssef Mahmoud · 111 likes

Glad you shared it; small wins count. This pairs weirdly well with sourdough.

Pieter Botha · 2 likes

Respectfully, I see it the other way.

Sleepy Runner · 15 likes

Agree completely. The simple version is underrated.

Sebastián Rojas · 15 likes

I think the bad version of this advice causes a lot of frustration. My friend tried it in Manila and had the opposite result.

Noura Alotaibi · 6 likes

What would you change if you started over? The ambitious part is easy to underestimate.

Noah Miller · 14 likes

I had the same reaction to easy.

Amelia Hughes · 4 likes

@sa_mango Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot.

Solar Otter · 2 likes

Beautifully concise.

Rohan Mehta · 2 likes

Small caveat: context changes the answer a lot.

Solar Otter · 3 likes

Noted, and thank you.

Solar Otter · 1 likes

Thanks for making it less intimidating.

Ngozi Bello · 1 likes

That made the concept click.

Curious Orbit · 0 likes

Anecdote beats theory here.

Cozy Otter · 5 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. This would have saved me a lot of trial and error.

Sleepy Otter · 4 likes

This feels a little overrated to me, even if the intention is good. I would test it for 5 days before deciding. Small progress still counts.

Mateo Cruz · 3 likes

Agree completely. The simple version is underrated. The lunch break version is even more interesting.

Sanne de Vries · 9 likes

Appreciate the nuance.

Emma Tremblay · 3 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. I care less about the perfect answer and more about repeatability.

Tiny Coder · 3 likes

I am cheering for this update. A little friction removed goes a long way.

Noah Miller · 2 likes

Good reminder that boring can be good. It reminds me of a very specific conversation near the library.

Midnight Sparrow · 15 likes

Could be regional too.

Noah Miller · 11 likes

That made the concept click.

Lucía García · 7 likes

That made the concept click.

Lukas Huber · 5 likes

Good clarification — I read it differently at first.

Can Arslan · 4 likes

Fair pushback.

Midnight Sparrow · 11 likes

Anecdote beats theory here.

Ngozi Bello · 3 likes

Now I want a spreadsheet.

Mateo Cruz · 0 likes

@urban_midnight This is the kind of disagreement I like.

Noah Miller · 0 likes

Thanks for making it less intimidating.

Aarav Sharma · 1 likes

Kind of wild how often near is the whole issue.

Priya Nair · 2 likes

This is genuinely helpful, thanks for writing it out. I learned that one the expensive way.

Grace Parker · 2 likes

My version of this was messier, but the conclusion was similar. The surprising part is easy to underestimate.

Chloe Davis · 1 likes

That is a surprisingly elegant way to frame it. I would love to see a follow-up after 8 weeks. Glad you shared the messy version too.

Priya Nair · 1 likes

Big fan of this approach.

Camille Dubois · 5 likes

I am stealing that phrase.

Chloe Davis · 1 likes

This sounds sensible, though I would need to test it myself.