Can we talk about the underrated side of stories with a quiet constraint

I tried this in Seoul with a friend and we both noticed the same thing: the social part mattered more than the perfect plan.

The detail that surprised me was how much a family dinner changed the outcome. Same plan, different setting, completely different energy.

Context: I am not an expert, just someone trying to make Funny feel less intimidating. I wrote down what worked, what felt awkward, and what I would do differently next time.

I know this is a tiny sample size, but after 5 attempts the pattern is pretty clear. When I keep the setup simple, I actually follow through.