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Language Learning · by Sophie Gagnon · 2026-10-09

The thing nobody told me about study in real life

> Tiny progress is still progress.

That line sounds cheesy, but it got me through the part where languages stopped feeling new.

I had a disappointing first try, a surprisingly good second try, and then a third attempt that taught me humility. So, naturally, I now have opinions.

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Jasmine Cruz · 6 likes

I do not have a strong take, but the life detail is useful. This pairs weirdly well with bibimbap.

Inês Ferreira · 4 likes

What would you change if you started over? I noticed the same thing in Nairobi. Public transit stories are secretly sociology stories.

Ananya Rao · 6 likes

@ines-70 That is fair, but I still worry about maintenance.

Sophie Gagnon · 1 likes

@coderNomad75 Short answer: yes. Long answer: also yes.

Aoi Ito · 2 likes

The kindness in this post is lovely. For me it came down to the routine.

Jan Nowak · 3 likes

Now I want a spreadsheet.

Sophie Gagnon · 1 likes

I like this more than the top-level advice.

Aoi Ito · 0 likes

Fair pushback.

Beatriz Sousa · 1 likes

That is the part people skip.

Ngozi Bello · 1 likes

My wallet felt that.

Mara Fischer · 0 likes

The Tuesday test is undefeated.

Aisha Jacobs · 1 likes

The context helps. Without it I would have assumed the opposite. For me it came down to the first draft.

Tola Ibrahim · 4 likes

I would love a follow-up example.

Liam Eriksson · 1 likes

This is adorable and oddly motivating. I would test it for 5 days before deciding.

Sophie Gagnon · 1 likes

I had the same reaction to before.

Liam Eriksson · 1 likes

This depends heavily on budget, time and personality. I keep a note about languages for exactly this reason.

Noah Johansson · 9 likes

Kind of wild how often budget is the whole issue.

Nour Ali · 1 likes

That is a good question for people with more experience than me. I keep a note about speaking for exactly this reason. I love details that only make sense once you've been there.