Wholesome · by Mango Orbit · 2026-10-09

Getting comfortable with clumsy conversations

I wanted the fancy version with all the tools. What helped was more boring: one notebook, one reminder, and being willing to be clumsy with the conversation for a while.

47 sparks · 6 comments

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Valeria López · 14 likes

This is helpful, thanks for writing it out.

Brave Orbit · 6 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. Honestly, the simplest version wins for me

Mia Anderson · 4 likes

This feels like advice from a patient friend. Small progress still counts.

Noah Campbell · 3 likes

love the tiny experiment energy.

Beatriz Sousa · 1 likes

Appreciate the nuance

Cozy Otter · 1 likes

@fernRunner32 Can you expand on that a bit?