Green Flag / Red Flag
Tell us what they did, we tell you what it means. Dates, texts, situationships and the tiny moments that say everything. Vote green flag or red flag 🚩, explain why, be kind about it.
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Rules
- Describe the situation, let the orbit vote green or red
- Blur names and faces in screenshots
- Roast the behavior, never the person
- No doxxing, no revenge posts
- Be honest, be kind, especially when it is a red flag
Hot posts
- He walked me home 30 blocks at 3am and said he lives "close". He lives in Avellaneda. — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 10 comments
- Found a note on his phone ranking every girl he's dated. I'm a 7.5 — Green Flag / Red Flag · 35 sparks · 14 comments
- He brought pasalubong for my entire family and memorized all 11 names — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 9 comments
- He ghosted me for 2 weeks then showed up at 1am with a mariachi — Green Flag / Red Flag · 39 sparks · 16 comments
- He replies "k." with the full stop — Green Flag / Red Flag · 21 sparks · 9 comments
- 40 minutes late to our first date and he said "this is Spain, mujer" — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 6 comments
- She ordered for both of us without asking me — Green Flag / Red Flag · 32 sparks · 15 comments
- He calls his mom every day at 7pm, even in the middle of our dates — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 7 comments
- His whole family shares live location in one WhatsApp group and now they want me in it — Green Flag / Red Flag · 31 sparks · 14 comments
- She told me her 5 year plan on our first date. The kids already have names. — Green Flag / Red Flag · 36 sparks · 19 comments
- He sent me money for my Bolt before we'd even met — Green Flag / Red Flag · 28 sparks · 16 comments
- He cried at Coco on our third date and didn't try to hide it — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 7 comments
- My boyfriend shares custody of a dog with his ex and they have a Google Calendar for it — Green Flag / Red Flag · 38 sparks · 20 comments
- He asked to meet my dad before taking me on a proper date — Green Flag / Red Flag · 34 sparks · 13 comments
- He pulled a Tupperware out of his jacket at the end of our dinner — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 9 comments
- He made a slideshow to ask me to be exclusive — Green Flag / Red Flag · 27 sparks · 14 comments
- She asked to see my Screen Time an hour into our first date — Green Flag / Red Flag · 32 sparks · 14 comments
- 4 months of "hänga" and he still won't call it dating — Green Flag / Red Flag · 26 sparks · 17 comments
- He burned three pots of tahdig trying to make it for my birthday — Green Flag / Red Flag · 25 sparks · 12 comments
- He paid for dinner then asked for half on M-Pesa when I said I didn't feel a spark — Green Flag / Red Flag · 29 sparks · 12 comments
- 3 weeks in and he's already booked us flights to Lisbon — Green Flag / Red Flag · 24 sparks · 11 comments
- His cat hissed at me and he said "she's usually a good judge of character" — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 14 comments
- He met my babcia and dziadek and brought five tulips, not four, because he googled it — Green Flag / Red Flag · 22 sparks · 14 comments
- His mom asked my salary within five minutes of the video call — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 11 comments
- He's 33, lives with his mamma, and she still irons his boxers — Green Flag / Red Flag · 20 sparks · 13 comments